When I was about 8 years old I had decided that I was going to have a daughter. I actually named her. Some of the discussions that I had with elders were that women had a glass barrier they had to overcome. I use to tell some of them that when I got older I would not understand the difference because I felt that I could do the same things as a man just as well.
I think I actually got mad learning Sally Ride was the first women who went to space and I had declared in anger that I would go run for President of the United States then because she was the first who went to space. I had asked it more of as a question when observing that there were no women as President starting the in 2nd grade at age 8.
As I got older, I thought that I really would want to have my daughter close to the anniversary of women being able to vote, i.e. when women have equal rights, count-down to equality.
There is a photo of me putting a $1900 rare book over my eyes at the age of 11 making a face. I was not allowed to keep the book so I took a picture of it.
My grandmother who helped raise me left me some of her wardrobe. She was more petite than I so some of her belongings had to be altered.
I think there is more to women than just having a well dressed wardrobe. I own 3 skateboards thus far. I feel like the White House probably is such a distance in between the wings, you would need your skateboard to get to and from. I use to make tree-houses as a kid. I think my next significant other whom I would have a child with, would be ok if I wanted to build a tree-house with my daughter, or skate, or do feministic things, or things that are sterotyped as male-dominated activities like football.
Technically I am a scientist and I could buy sperm. I got to ask Vernice Armour about her birth with her wife and she said well it was either that or a new truck #flygirl is her thing. I really would like to have a man in my life though be a father and a significant other and being a single mom for such a period of time, it is difficult to move beyond seeing myself doing everything by myself to being able to integrate opening myself up for letting someone back into my life, or my work schedule for that matter, so I think I wrote down a boyfriend list, not of guys to be boyfriends, but what I would want in one, like how we would talk about what our needs are, and I have things about myself that I normally would disclose to someone after we have dated for a while and then I thought well if there are things about me like how to calm me down during a specific scenario, maybe I should keep it in my boyfriend book like a how to guide to deal with me.
My daughter should have open arms to a world that makes every effort for women to have doors open to them no matter what.
Definitely would love to teach her chess. Camping, how to ride a bike, what to name the stars in the sky at night. Swim. Read. Go shopping, travel the world, technically I might be able to teach her how to fly planes by the tie she gets here, who knows I may have an instructor rating by that time.
Then I have to wonder if I fall for a guy who hates things that I love, such as rollercoasters, is he going to stay at home with our daughter if I have to go on a mission that takes me away from home?
Will I teach her to cook with wine so the flavor stays and the alcohol burns off like my grandmother did for me?
Will have to have an educational fund ready for her.
I wrote to Pope Francis III about my friend who help my hand during my first live birth, & that I was thinking about having a daughter and that she would love everyone and more importantly since my friend who was there at the time is Catholic, I spoke about her kids and the speech I gave at her mothers eulogy.
Tonight I wrote on balloons that had "First Choice School" printed on them. So I wrote in multiple universities that I would like to go to.
I think I would want a man who would not mind traveling to other universities when I have a daughter. Even when I was little I had wanted four properties to maintain for a family so that they would be seasonal for occupied by us, and now that I am getting reinstated for my real estate license to have towards my investments and work as well, I am thinking about registering her name that I made up as a young girl and capitalizing on it so I can save money for her until she gets here.
Being a young mother myself, and with my 13 year old thinking of college, I know I would not want to be with a man who would ever hit a woman, I would NEVER want that for my daughter or myself. #MayBeHeDoesntHitYou was trending online and there are certainly other ways that men can be controlling of women and stipulate that they are property when they should have freedom so I would probably have it written in management of our estates that certain guidelines are followed to ensure her freedoms.
You know what I say- he didn't ask my permission to think :P
I have met so many people in my life who some of them happen to be of the opposite sex and sometimes we see it as an opposite species. For guys who claim girls when they do not ask them, or go into relationships without talking it through over what terms they want, what they want together, I am more baffled at why someone can just go up to someone else as if they were cattle free and open roaming in a range and then say well you know they are within a distance of me being able to say that is mine even if they are not wanting that.
I am not really one to talk though. I have been out on dates where I had no idea we were dating. I have also done internet dating where I will end up meeting someone I have already met and then I am like oh shit I remember why I did not like you half way through dinner and I am like what do I do? It really sucks when you go out with someone on a date and you forget their name in the middle of the date.
Now on whether or not my daughter can date you know I am not sure how I would feel!
Hopefully whoever I have a daughter with will instill a great deal of confidence in our daughter and she will date happily.
I better go to bed I have a Daughters of the Republic of Texas convention meeting tomorrow.
I think I actually got mad learning Sally Ride was the first women who went to space and I had declared in anger that I would go run for President of the United States then because she was the first who went to space. I had asked it more of as a question when observing that there were no women as President starting the in 2nd grade at age 8.
As I got older, I thought that I really would want to have my daughter close to the anniversary of women being able to vote, i.e. when women have equal rights, count-down to equality.
There is a photo of me putting a $1900 rare book over my eyes at the age of 11 making a face. I was not allowed to keep the book so I took a picture of it.
My grandmother who helped raise me left me some of her wardrobe. She was more petite than I so some of her belongings had to be altered.
I think there is more to women than just having a well dressed wardrobe. I own 3 skateboards thus far. I feel like the White House probably is such a distance in between the wings, you would need your skateboard to get to and from. I use to make tree-houses as a kid. I think my next significant other whom I would have a child with, would be ok if I wanted to build a tree-house with my daughter, or skate, or do feministic things, or things that are sterotyped as male-dominated activities like football.
Technically I am a scientist and I could buy sperm. I got to ask Vernice Armour about her birth with her wife and she said well it was either that or a new truck #flygirl is her thing. I really would like to have a man in my life though be a father and a significant other and being a single mom for such a period of time, it is difficult to move beyond seeing myself doing everything by myself to being able to integrate opening myself up for letting someone back into my life, or my work schedule for that matter, so I think I wrote down a boyfriend list, not of guys to be boyfriends, but what I would want in one, like how we would talk about what our needs are, and I have things about myself that I normally would disclose to someone after we have dated for a while and then I thought well if there are things about me like how to calm me down during a specific scenario, maybe I should keep it in my boyfriend book like a how to guide to deal with me.
My daughter should have open arms to a world that makes every effort for women to have doors open to them no matter what.
Definitely would love to teach her chess. Camping, how to ride a bike, what to name the stars in the sky at night. Swim. Read. Go shopping, travel the world, technically I might be able to teach her how to fly planes by the tie she gets here, who knows I may have an instructor rating by that time.
Then I have to wonder if I fall for a guy who hates things that I love, such as rollercoasters, is he going to stay at home with our daughter if I have to go on a mission that takes me away from home?
Will I teach her to cook with wine so the flavor stays and the alcohol burns off like my grandmother did for me?
Will have to have an educational fund ready for her.
I wrote to Pope Francis III about my friend who help my hand during my first live birth, & that I was thinking about having a daughter and that she would love everyone and more importantly since my friend who was there at the time is Catholic, I spoke about her kids and the speech I gave at her mothers eulogy.
Tonight I wrote on balloons that had "First Choice School" printed on them. So I wrote in multiple universities that I would like to go to.
I think I would want a man who would not mind traveling to other universities when I have a daughter. Even when I was little I had wanted four properties to maintain for a family so that they would be seasonal for occupied by us, and now that I am getting reinstated for my real estate license to have towards my investments and work as well, I am thinking about registering her name that I made up as a young girl and capitalizing on it so I can save money for her until she gets here.
Being a young mother myself, and with my 13 year old thinking of college, I know I would not want to be with a man who would ever hit a woman, I would NEVER want that for my daughter or myself. #MayBeHeDoesntHitYou was trending online and there are certainly other ways that men can be controlling of women and stipulate that they are property when they should have freedom so I would probably have it written in management of our estates that certain guidelines are followed to ensure her freedoms.
You know what I say- he didn't ask my permission to think :P
I have met so many people in my life who some of them happen to be of the opposite sex and sometimes we see it as an opposite species. For guys who claim girls when they do not ask them, or go into relationships without talking it through over what terms they want, what they want together, I am more baffled at why someone can just go up to someone else as if they were cattle free and open roaming in a range and then say well you know they are within a distance of me being able to say that is mine even if they are not wanting that.
I am not really one to talk though. I have been out on dates where I had no idea we were dating. I have also done internet dating where I will end up meeting someone I have already met and then I am like oh shit I remember why I did not like you half way through dinner and I am like what do I do? It really sucks when you go out with someone on a date and you forget their name in the middle of the date.
Now on whether or not my daughter can date you know I am not sure how I would feel!
Hopefully whoever I have a daughter with will instill a great deal of confidence in our daughter and she will date happily.
I better go to bed I have a Daughters of the Republic of Texas convention meeting tomorrow.
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